"don't settle for mediocrity"

There are many disadvantages to living in a town that is mostly 55+. People over the age of 60 should not be able to drive. It's a risk every time i'm on the road with these oldies, ESPECIALLY on my bike. Also, old people can be a bit crabby and stubborn (scratch that... i know some 55- that are a lot more crabby and stubborn...) There are definitely many advantages.... No lines at the self-check out, not many people on the roads past 7pm (the early bird specials are long over by then), and the best of all... lots of wisdom.

On Wednesday's I play volleyball with my grandpa and a random group of people. Surprisingly it is quite a competitive two hours of bumping, setting and spiking. Last Wed a friend of my grandparents asked me about my "foot skills" so I told him I played soccer and was trying out for a team in Boston. He told me that he knows a coach who is somehow connected to the Olympics and he would call her and tell her about me (that's not the important part of the story though... and no, I won't get you tickets to the next Olympics because I won't be in them) This man is amazing- he's 80, a snowbird who splits his time between VA Beach and Sarasota, he still body surfs, and he claims to have invented beach volleyball. He also told me about his many trips all over the world playing and coaching volleyball. Anyway, after 20 min of him telling me about his world travels he said, "Rachel, don't settle for mediocrity in anything you pursue." In that moment I was ready to conquer the world.

I got A Million Miles in a Thousand Years by Donald Miller for Christmas (thanks, Aunt Bev). Not sure why it's taken me this long to read it(maybe because I wanted to read it slowly and consider all the thought provoking points it brings up OR most likely it's because i've been in FL and would rather be active than reading). ANYWAY, this book has also made me want to live a life that is meaningful. To live a story that makes an impact because i'm allowing The Author to "whisper a better story into my consciousness."

I graduated nearly 9 months ago and feel like this new chapter in my life is getting off to a slow start. Part of me wants my life to be normal... To have a job, house, a (tall, dark and handsome) mate, you know all that "normal" stuff. I want that eventually, but i'm so thankful for this time i've had to grow and experience different things. I wouldn't say that I am an overly cautious person, but when it comes to a job or a house or a mate I want to make sure it's a good fit; I don't want to settle for mediocrity. I struggle with expecting perfection in myself, in others, in life- I think the fear of failure is something that has been keeping me from pursuing different things in my life. Don had some good stuff to say about this in chapter 29: "When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are. And when you stop expecting material possessions to complete you, you'd be surprised at how much pleasure you get in material possessions. And when you stop expecting God to end all your troubles, you'd be surprised how much you like spending time with God."

My aunt (grandma's husband's daughter) who i'm living with is a brilliant woman. She has a doctorate and she's a pharmacist AND she keeps a very clean and neat house, all of which are highly admirable. I love the nights that we sit and talk about life- her successes and failures, politics, religion, marriage, kids... She has imparted a great deal of wisdom to me. Not only that... she's a very good cook.

All that to say, part of me is sad to leave, but most of me is excited for my adventure that lies ahead. I am trying out for a professional soccer team in a week! How many people can say that (after they've spent two months getting tan and fit in paradise)!

Life is good. God is good. Now, get out there and "don't settle for mediocrity."